When you feel a bad mood coming on, you don't have to give in to it. It's as simple as changing clothes.
In her devotional book for mothers, Nancy Campbell writes about "putting on the new man" as Ephesians 4:22-24 describes.
We receive a whole new wardrobe once we become believers in Christ! What kind of clothes do we have in our made-over closet? Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self control (Galatians 5:22)."...Put off your old self...to be made new in the attitude of your minds; ...put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness."
If you feel like your day is getting a little too chaotic and you can sense you're close to losing your cool and raising your voice, run into your closet and change clothes. Take off the impatience and stress. Find the peace and patience and put it on instead.
Your toddler has done something really upsetting. You're very frustrated. You're wearing your old shirt of harshness. Stop and change into gentleness with some self-control as an important accessory.
Perhaps you have a teenager who's being real testy. Don't meet the attitude wearing your snide shirt with your cool skirt. Try an outfit of love and faithfulness instead. Maybe your change of clothes will cause your child to change clothes eventually, too.
No matter what emotion you feel in your old self, there's a makeover waiting to happen. You just have to put it on. You can change clothes multiple times a day, and the best part is--in this system, there's no laundry to do!
(Sharing with Finding Heaven, Graceful, and Raising Homemakers)
Well said! As a mom to two teenagers and an almost 3 month old, I need to constantly remind myself to wear the same "outfit" with my teens that I wear for the baby...patience and gentleness!
ReplyDeleteYou know, that is a really good visual I can use. And maybe I will actually go into my closet to calm down and "change" clothes!
ReplyDeleteThis is good. And straight from scripture. Thanks for the encouragement.
ReplyDeleteI like all those "put on" verses. Practical, indeed.
ReplyDeleteFondly,
Glenda
great visual!
ReplyDeleteAn awesome visual, and I love that it comes directly from scripture!
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