Showing posts with label Giveaways. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Giveaways. Show all posts

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Growing in Patience

Update: Jessica, congratulations! You won the drawing for the 100 Days of Blessing devotional book. Please email me your address (cheryl@momsinneedofmercy.com), and I will order that for you.
 
This weekend, we celebrated Easter. The Resurrection offers tremendous joy and hope for believers in Christ, as we know: 1) Christ is who He says He is--the Son of God, 2) what He said is true, and 3) He overcame sin and death and gives us the power to do the same. We know we will live forever with Christ and loved ones in a beautiful place after this life is over.

The Resurrection also provides hope and joy for us as mothers.

"Do you need more of God's power in your life? Do you need more of His power to help you mother each day? I have wonderful news for you. As you allow Him, God's power is working in you mightily. Not ordinary power, but the dunamis power of God, the power of God which releases miracles. It is the dunamis power of God which was poured out upon the disciples when they received the Holy Spirit to take the Gospel to the uttermost part of the earth. This is where we get the word dynamite--explosive power!...

Do you have trouble being patient? Are you plagued with anger? You do not have to be defeated any longer. Jesus died on the cross to give you the victory. Jesus Christ, the Son of God, did not die in vain. He died to not only save you from your sin, but to deliver you from your 'self' nature and to change you into the image of His Son. His dunamis power is working in you mightily to reveal God's nature and character in you and through you--to your husband, your children and to the people you associate with in your life.

Let Him work in you mightily. Jesus' blood has been shed to give you a new life. You can have patience because Christ lives in you and He is patient! You can have long-suffering, because Christ in you is longsuffering. He does not fly off the handle! He does not scream and shout! He has long patience and forbearance. And His wonderful life is living in you!...

Not only is Christ living His patient and longsuffering nature in you, but He enables you to do it with joy and thankfulness. Christ in you is joy. In the flesh, you live in defeat, but in Christ, you can bear your burdens with joy. You can put up with those who would naturally drive you mad. You can be patient with your children. You can endure as the power of God works in you mightily!"--Nancy Campbell, 100 Days of Blessing: Devotions for Wives and Mothers
Here are some of my favorite posts that share some practical ideas for growing in patience:
(I realize there are several here. I encourage you to read through them this week as you have extra time. I hope they will bless you.) 
Because I have been so blessed by Nancy Campbell's devotional book, I would like you to be encouraged by it, too. As an Easter gift, I will order a copy for one of my readers. Please leave a comment on this post if you would like to be entered. The winner will be posted next Monday.

Sharing with:
Raising Homemakers
Women Living Well

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Christmas Giveaway

I received an email announcement about this giveaway and thought I would share it with you! Good luck! I know my boys would love the castle blocks!

With the holiday season upon us and many people getting caught up in commercial buzz, Primrose Schools is encouraging families to slow down and reflect on their favorite things. Dr. Zurn, the Vice President of Education and Professional Development for Primrose, is helping spread her love of giving to her Dr. Z and Friends followers by sharing her Favorite Things with you and your children!

For the remainder of this week and all of next week, until December 16th, Dr. Z will describe one of her Favorite Things in a blog post and give it away at the end of the day; simply leave a comment on her post to enter for that day's giveaway and a winner will be chosen at random to win not only that day's Favorite Thing but you will also win a book that reflects the same theme.

So far, Dr. Z has given away a music set, a full collection of children’s books, and an iPad with an iTunes giftcard. The prizes for the remaining prizes for the first week are as follows, with next week’s prizes being announced soon:

December 8th: A Groupon gift card for you to use on your next family outing. The book is Field Trip Day by Lynne Plourde.

December 9th:
ArchiQuest Blocks: Kings and Castles



The book is
Castles, Caves, and Honeycombs

More about Dr. Mary Zurn: She has been with Primrose Schools since 2004 and has been paramount in developing the curriculum taught in the family of over 200 early education day care practices. With over 40 years of experience, she began her blog as a way to communicate with parents and loved ones her love for education and children.


More prizes being given away next week! Go here to enter.









Monday, November 21, 2011

MomSense Winner

The winner of  MomSense: A Common-Sense Guide to Confident Mothering is Andrea.
Andrea, I've sent you an email. Please send me your mailing address, and I will get your book out to you.

Thanks, everyone, for entering. Even if you didn't win a copy, I hope you have a chance to read it! It's a great, confidence-inspiring book.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

MomSense: A Common Sense Guide to Confident Mothering

 You would think that, with my fourth child, I would be pretty confident in my mothering. Not necessarily so. Sure, I am more confident in many areas, such as interpreting what an infant is trying to communicate, how to go about potty-training boys, and how to deal with a temper tantrum in public. But after the birth of my fourth, I suddenly felt like a wave tossed to and fro in regard to our parenting philosophy in general. We've always adopted more of a Dr. Sears/attachment parenting style, but I found the convenience of the schedule of the Baby Wise approach appealing. The only problem is I've never had the grit to let my baby "cry it out" for a half hour or more.

 
So when I was offered the opportunity to read and review MomSense: A Common-Sense Guide to Confident Mothering, I jumped at it. This sounded exactly like what I needed! Check out what the book's back cover has to say:
"Do blogs, books, magazines, and well-meaning women in your life have you questioning your mothering intuition? Jean Blacker is here to tell you that you are the best mom for your children--and you have what it takes to raise them.

With personal stories from real moms and proven, practical advice, MomSense helps you honestly assess your skills, embrace your mothering instincts, and develop your own unique mothering style. Rather than pushing one 'right' way to be a mom, this hope-filled book shows you that you can have contentment, joy, and confidence in your role as Mom."
Right off the bat, this is a unique book. First, it's the first book I've ever read that is printed in blue ink! Beyond that, like the back cover states, it's not advocating a specific parenting style ("do-it-this-way-or- else") but it encourages moms to take an honest look at one's own particular style and become more confident in our MomSense.

What exactly is "MomSense"? Author Jean Blackmer, who is herself the mother of three sons and the publishing manager at MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) International defines it as "Mom intuition plus common sense." The good news is--even if you don't have very much mommy training starting out (or much common sense!), you can learn new skills and improve your MomSense everyday throughout your parenting journey. (And, by the way, in case you ever feel like mothering leaves you somewhat scatter-brained, Jean points out that "a woman's brain begins functioning at new levels once she becomes a mom." So, even if you're fumbling around in your purse, trying to find your keys, while your kids are begging for quarters for the gumball machine at the grocery store, and the bagger is just waiting on you so he can help you unload your groceries in your car, your MomSense is off the charts!)

After introducing the idea of MomSense and sharing encouragement for growth in our skills as mothers, Jean explores how our mothering is shaped by our own mothers, both positively and negatively. This chapter provided an opportunity for reflection. You've probably found in your own life, that no matter how many times you used to say, "I'll never do that as a mom!", you find yourself doing those very things now that you are a mom. Through reading this chapter (and the reflection questions at the end), I identified some areas where I can work intentionally to improve my MomSense.

The next chapter focuses on decision making. "Life is jam-packed with decisions. How does a person make decisions and live without regret?" You'll find answers here, in this immensely helpful chapter. It offers great advice for trusting your own intuition more fully and making confident decisions. For those like me, who tend to be indecisive and seek out tons of information before making a decision and then second-guess decisions to no end, this chapter was a real confidence booster.

Speaking of decisions, one of the most important choices a mom can make is in regards to the attitude of her spirit. With "practical tips and tools," Jean addresses several areas that are crucial for successful mothering. These are listed and explained as:
  • Sense of Patience: Intentionally practicing patience: the ability to endure waiting, delay or provacation without becoming annoyed or upset
  • Sense of Respect. Modeling and teaching the Golden Rule: do unto others are you would have them do unto you.
  • Sense of Consistency. Becoming the reliable, faithful mom your children need.
  • Sense of Perspective. Avoiding the nonsense and focusing on what matters most/
  • Sense of Self-Control. Practicing and modeling self-discipline in a self-indulgent world
  • Sense of Calm. Remaining composed in the chaos and creating a peaceful home.
  • Sense of Joy. Maintaining a sense of humor and creating a joyful atmosphere in the home.
  • Sense of Love. Building a sensible mothering philosophy grounded in unconditional love.
The above sections are rich not only with encouragement, but also with practical areas where we can all improve our MomSense.

Finally, Jean shares helpful advice for dealing with some of the common challenges of motherhood, such as handling tantrums in public, potty-training, dealing with sibling rivalry, handling advice from in-laws, and more.

Because motherhood is not one-size-fits-all, you won't find that kind of an approach in this book. What you will find, however, is plenty of grace, encouragement, and practical tips to help you become the best mom for your kids. You'll learn how to make decisions in their (and your) best interest, and how to feel confident about them.

Especially because mothering boys can present unique challenges for us moms (since they are so different from us!), I wanted to ask Jean for any tips on becoming more confident in raising sons.

Here's what she had to say:
"First, it's an important step to realize and accept that you are a girl and raising boys can be challenging, they are definitely different than girls.

My advice to help moms grow in their MomSense (and confidence) in raising boys is to rely on things you know, your common sense, such as boys typically are more physical, greater risk takers and louder than girls. And often boys are attracted to things such as video games, balls, trucks and guns. But, it is common sense that even though a boy is more physical it's not okay to hurt someone else, or boys are louder doesn't mean it's okay to be loud all the time, or it's okay to allow your boys to take risks just teach them safety skills too (A book came across my desk called "50 dangerous things every boy should do" or something like that :)., or just because a boy is attracted to video games doesn't mean it's good for him to play endless hours etc.

Then use your mom intuition. You know your boy better than anyone else. If you know what makes him tick you can help him grow in those passions and direct his - what girls might feel are negatives - his boyishness - into positives. For example, a boy that is super physical would probably really enjoy contact sports and needs to get outside every day and release that energy. If you know your son gets a thrill from taking risks help him find some fun and safe ways to experience the adventures he craves. (Husbands are often good sources for this.) Be intentional about really observing your son and getting to know him, be his biggest cheerleader, and trust your intuition in your mothering of him, over time you will become more confident. At times you still will feel at a loss for understanding your boys so I really encourage communication with other moms of sons and glean wisdom from each other, keep a sense of humor, and enjoy your boys and the passion, energy and adventure they bring to your life!"
In conclusion, MomSense: A Common-Sense Guide to Confident Motheringtruly helped me to not only make a decision regarding our parenting style and newborn scheduling, but encouraged me to grow in my confidence as a mom and in the decisions I make for our family. I heartily recommend this book.

And...you can win a copy, courtesy of MOPS. Just leave a comment on this post. I'd love to hear what one area you'd specifically like to become more confident in, in regard to motherhood (but you don't have to share that). I'll post a winner on Monday. (Please be sure to leave your email in the contact. Shipping to US residents only, please).

Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book to review and one to give away.

Friday, September 30, 2011

Loving the Little Years Winners

Thanks, everyone, for entering the Loving the Little Years book giveaway, courtesy of Canon Press.
The winners, according to a random number drawing, are Sallie (comment #5) and Stephenie (#6).

If you provided an email address, I emailed you. If you didn't, please email me at cheryl@momsinneedofmercy.com with your mailing address with 24 hours. If I don't hear from you, I will draw another winner. Thanks!

Enjoy the book!

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches


As moms in need of mercy, we care about being good moms, we desire to become better moms. As we grow in Christ and seek to become more godly mothers, we find there's always at least one area where we can work to improve.

In this journey of sanctification, resources like blogs and books that meet us where we're at when we're struggling and inspire us to new heights are treasured gems. They renew our vision and refresh our spirits. 

That's how I felt when I came across a copy of Loving The Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches by Rachel Jankovic--a young mother of five, ages five and under. Reading this book felt like having a heart-to-heart talk with a great friend or mentor, where what they say just clicks, and you go away encouraged and motivated.

The book is a quick, but deeply enriching, read. Chapters are short--like reading blog posts. As Rachel writes, it's a "loose collection of thoughts on mothering young children--for when you are motivated, for when you are discouraged, for the times when discipline seems fruitless, and for when you are just plain old tired."

My only complaint is I found it a little too short in places. I wish she would have elaborated more on some topics and flushed out more practical suggestions in areas, such as dealing with the chaos that comes along with multiple little children. However, as Christians, we have a relationship with Christ and fellow believers, the Bible and the Holy Spirit to help instruct us and guide us in wisdom.

I'd love to share with you everything I loved about this book, but that would require more space than this post allows. So here are a few of my favorite excerpts from the book:
  • "As you deal with your children, deal with yourself always and first. This is what it looks like and feels like to walk with God as a mother."
  • The spirit in which we correct our children: "When they disobey, do you talk about your own hurt? Are you pointing to all the work that you have to do now that they screwed up? Do you want to elaborate at all on how bad, bad, bad that particular thing was?...Now try thinking of discipline as a different kind of nourishment--a sweet means of grace to your children."
  • "Flunking" a bad day: '"Child number one was a huge pill all day. Child number two was crying and fussing and fighting with child number one. children three and four were just as bad, but I don't know what they were doing, but everyone was terrible, terrible terrible...A F minus for the whole class...'" (she follows with a challenging conviction to moms on what to do if days like that have been happening a bit too often.)
  • Helpful tips for teaching kids to manage their emotions
  • Encouragement to renew our perspective on mothering. Do we feel overwhelmed? Rachel writes, "God gave me to do this. I may not be overwhelmed about it. I can try as hard as I can, and maybe fail sometimes. I can try as hard as I can and fall asleep at the dinner table. I can try as hard as I can and be completely burned out at the end of the day. But I may not be overwhelmed. Actually, I may be overwhelmed, but I may not say that I am overwhelmed! The words have a real power over us."
  • Great points for not blowing our tops when multiple children are doing multiple things at the simultaneous time. (This section inspired this post).
  • A fresh perspective on "me" time
  • Dealing with the "ambiguous restlessness in the house" during a time of change (such as giving up naps). Rachel writes that it's only a problem when Mom refuses to have a growth spurt herself and suggests Mom finds a creative way to deal with the new needs.
  • Thinking of yourself as a "racquetball court": taking the blows our children send our way and not bouncing them back at them, but absorbing them and finding ways to soften them.
  • Suggestions on sibling rivalry and handling the all-too-common fights over toys
  • A challenge to get rid of the alarm clock when you have a nursing baby. Do we really need to know how much we were up with the baby and how little sleep we got?
  • A beautiful section on teaching expectations and instilling obedience: "God will give you the kind of overwhelming joy that cannot remember the details. Motherhood is hard work. It is repetitious and often times menial. Accept it. Rejoice in it..."
I came away from reading this book feeling like Rachel was a kindred spirit, the kind of friend where you sit and have coffee while the children play and you have a great (but often interrupted) conversation about the real meat of mothering: our hearts, and how to find God's mercy in all the messy moments.

Reading the book was such a blessing to me, I'd like to offer the same experience to you. Cannon Press has graciously agreed to give away two copies of the book (US and Canada entries only, please.) I will draw two random winners next week Thursday. If you'd like to win, please leave a comment on this post, including your contact information. Winners will have 24 hours to respond, or another winner will be chosen.


Monday, January 24, 2011

Febreeze Odor Eliminator and the Moth Ball Challenge: A Giveaway

Recently a friend gave us some really nice hand-me-downs for the younger boys. The clothes were stored with moth balls, which is a difficult smell (especially when you're in your first trimester of pregnancy) and can be hard to remove. Enter the Febreeze Laundry Odor Eliminator Smell Test Challenge!

Febreze Laundry Odor Eliminator 50.73 fl oz (1.5 l)


The company recently sent me a coupon to try their product. At the time, I didn't have any smelly laundry; plus, I'm not crazy about adding an extra additive to the laundry. Yet, when I received these clothes, I new this would be the perfect way to test out the product. Plus, Febreeze is offering coupons for a free bottle of the product to two Moms In Need of Mercy readers.

The Febreeze site says this about the product:
"Febreze Laundry Odor Eliminator is a laundry aid that works in the washer with detergents to eliminate odors such as perspiration, cooking oil, grease, motor oil, pets, garden soil and mildew from virtually any washable fabric. While detergents clean the soils Febreze Laundry Odor Eliminator cleans away odors that get trapped in fabrics."
I think this product would come in handy when washing clothes from camping (with that campfire smell trapped in), anything from the thrift store, clothes that smell like cigarrette smoke or sweat and more.

For my laundry challenge, here's what I am going to do:
  • I am going to wash one load with detergent and the Febreeze Laundry Odor Eliminator
  • I am going to wash a second load with detergent, plus a half-cup of baking soda and some full-strength vinegar in the fabric dispenser cup (this is a more natural option).
I will report back later today or tomorrow on how the Febreeze Laundry Odor Eliminator measured up!
(Here is a helpful forum with some additional hints on how to remove moth bell smells:
http://www.thriftyfun.com/tf727097.tip.html#34688597)

If you would like to enter to win a free bottle, please leave a comment with your email address on this post.
I will post the winner tomorrow morning.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

And The Winners Are...

Thanks to everyone who entered to win a copy of Mad Hungry: Feeding Men and Boysand a 1/4 pound of Rooibos tea.

The winner of Mad Hungry, generated by Random.org is #22: sclevenger. I will send you an email to get your address. The publisher will be mailing your book.

The winner of the tea is comment #14: Anonymous, who wrote "Tea is my favorite. This sounds delicious." However, since I have no way to contact you, if I do not hear from you by noon Thursday (mountain time), I will draw and post another winner. You can contact me at cheryl@momsinneedofmercy.com

Have a great day!
~Cheryl

Saturday, March 6, 2010

A Cup of Tea a Day May Keep the Doctor Away

Have you heard about Rooibos Tea? It's from South Africa, and is rich in vital minerals and Vitamin C--and it's 100% caffeine free. It was reportedly discovered during recent university research,that this "miracle tea" contains high levels of an agent that fights free radicals that can cause aging. Research also shows that Rooibos tea has more antioxidant action than green tea.

An informational sheet I have says that Rooibos tea is now clinically prescribed for nervous tension, allergies, and stomach/digestion problems. It has reportedly been found to relieve insomnia and stomach cramps and has a soothing affect on skin when directly applied. It offers relief for diaper rash (add lukewarm brewed tea to bath water) and other skin irritations, and is especially helpful for babies with colic (I think you would just give them 1/2 tsp. to 1 tsp., much like the "gripe water").

Some of my friends have given up coffee for Lent, and I've encouraged them to turn to Rooibos tea as a delicious alternative. You can even brew a pot in your coffee pot. I've tried it; it works great! (You can use 1 tsp.-1 T. per cup, depending on taste preference.).

Whether hot or cold, it's a delicious thirst-quencher, and a healthy option for all members of the family. In Mad Hungry, Lucinda Scala Quinn writes,
"Soda? Don't. Obviously if you never keep soda at home, your kids won't drink it all the time because it won't be there. Instead, teach them to drink plain and sparkling water and other fresh and delicious beverages, such as fresh, natural juice, cold sweetened herbal infusions, and various milks and nectars. As long as something good is there to quench their thirst, they'll avoid loading their bodies with too much sugar and empty calories. "
Ms. Quinn's recommendation is to prepare a large batch of rooibos tea and leave it chilled in the refrigerator as an alternative to soda or juice. I especially love that my kids can drink this, since it's caffeine free (they don't need any more energy than they already have--trust me!). They love a small cup in the morning with milk (you can add honey if you want). (The recipe in Mad Hungry is: (1/4 c. loose tea, 5 c. boiling water, 2 T. honey; steep for 4 minutes and strain. Stir in the honey. Serve hot or cold over ice.)

Now what kind of friend would I be if I left you hanging after making you thirsty for some Rooibos tea? :)
I purchase my loose Rooibos tea from a local coffee roaster (I recommend their fresh-roasted coffee as well; they roast it when you order it, so it is as fresh as you'll find anywhere!). They generously agreed to give away a quarter-pound bag of Rooibos tea to one lucky reader. The winner can choose the flavor of her choice. For future orders, P. Hawk Coffee and Tea can be reached via email at pheasanthawk80@yahoo.com, or phone (307) 234-6073. They ship within the continental United States.

The flavors are:
Plain, anise, Belgian chocolate (this is great!), black currant, blueberry, creme au caramel, masala chai, cranagrante, cranberry, earl grey, sunshine lemon, lemon ginger, mango, Florida orange, Dutch licorice, Georgia peach, corsica pear, pina colada (this is one of my favorites!), Provence, rainbow, raspberry, Segovia muffin, Sgt. Peppers, Le Marche Spice, strawberry, bourbon street vanilla, and wild berry

Leave a comment to be entered to win. I'll draw a winner Wednesday. (Due to possible customs complications with shipping loose tea, the winner must be in the continental U.S. Thanks for understanding!)

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Mad Hungry: Feeding Men and Boys--Review and Giveaway

“Feeding my four guys has been one of the greatest pleasures of my life. I’ve had more fun in the kitchen and at the dinner table with them than almost anywhere else. Eating is something we have to do, so why give it short shrift? If you have to do it, make it beautiful and spread the beauty.”

So begins Mad Hungry: Feeding Men and Boys by Lucinda Scala Quinn. This mother of three guys knows a lot about food. She’s been cooking professionally since she was a teenager and now serves as Executive Food Director for Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia, and co-hosts PBS’ Everyday Food.

I have written before about how picky I am about books; I don’t endorse them lightly. But I am absolutely “mad” about Mad Hungry. Lucinda gets it: the joy that comes from feeding our families good food, the importance of making home-cooked meals, the importance of teaching our boys to cook. “Create a legacy,” she writes. “Serve old-fashioned—meaning simple—meals, the kind moms everywhere have always made. When I was a kid, meals were predictable, comforting, familiar, tasty and most of all consistent…Anyone who grew up with someone cooking regular meals remembers those dishes as if they were eaten yesterday.”

 She encourages us to build our own recipe collection out of what appeals to our family’s tastes, and then serve those meals frequently to build a “sensory food bank.” These smells and tastes are what our guys will remember when they’re out on their own. They’ll beckon them home.

In addition to delicious breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert recipes, Mad Hungry is chock-full of cooking help, such as choosing knives and pans; shopping with kids; tips for cleaning up (and teaching boys to help); and “ten tenets" for "how and why to feed your guys” (I loved this section).

While I aim to feed my family healthfully, I am also always looking for new ideas to save money without compromising quality. Ms. Quinn offered a cost-saving menu-planning idea. She intersperses three evenings of meat with a pasta night, a soup night, and a bean night. Yet, she encourages us to keep food spending in perspective:
 “What you consume on a daily basis is your first line of defense against ill health…My philosophy when it comes to what food I buy, consume, and serve others is I’d rather invest my dollars on best-quality food choices than on new clothes or a new car.”
On that note, people always joke about how expensive it is to feed teenage boys (or growing boys of any age, for that matter). In Mad Hungry: Feeding Men and Boys, you’ll find snack ideas to fill them up healthfully and frugally, such as:
  • Sweet potato wedges (recipe in the book)
  • Popcorn with parmesan cheese
  • Fruit smoothies
  • Vegetables: “When your kids are young, keep many varieties of colorful crunchy and crispy vegetables available for snacks instead of sugary, salty choices. Sliced cucumber, red bell peppers, and celery can fill up a boy and boost his energy until dinner without ruining his appetite. This should be the first response to the common cry, ‘I’m starving.’ Just cut a load of raw vegetables into different shapes and pile them into a bowl.”
  • Increase beans, grains and starches to make meals go further
Reading this book cover-to-cover benefited me much, and I love to re-read portions when I have a few extra minutes—it gives me a warm feeling, as if I was cooking in my Grandma’s kitchen again. I know you’ll love it too. Courtesy of Artisan Press, I am giving away one copy to a reader (U.S. only please, and no P.O. boxes).

To enter, simply leave a comment with a way to contact you if you’re the winner. The winner will be randomly drawn and posted next Wednesday, March 10.


But of course, no cookbook review would be complete without a few recipes. So again, courtesy of Artisan Press, here are three mouth-watering, healthy, and filling recipes straight from Mad Hungry for you to try:

italian fries

serves 6 (if you are very lucky)

copyright Artisan Press

"My oldest brother, Jim, is proof positive that if you cook well for a boy, he’ll want to cook for himself. Presently this six-foot-five father of three strapping teenage boys effortlessly turns out delicious meals day in and day out for his own family. His sons are athletes who eat a ton—but their meals are always fresh and prepared with love. When our extended families gather to prepare a meal, their father is always at the forefront, planning and executing. My parents taught all three of my brothers to cook and eat well, but Jim has perfected my mom’s specialty—a twist on oven fries originated by our Italian relatives. Everyone goes crazy for them, and there are never enough!"
  • 6 or 7 Idaho potatoes, peeled and sliced into 1⁄3-inch-thick French fry–style strips, soaked in cold salted water
  • 4 tablespoons (1/4 cup) extra-virgin olive oil
  • 1 tablespoon dried Italian herbs or
  • some combo of dried oregano, thyme, marjoram, and basil
  • 2 cups freshly grated Romano cheese
  • 1/4 cup fresh parsley leaves, finely chopped
  • 4 tablespoons (1/2 stick) salted butter, cut into 6 cubes
  • Coarse salt and freshly ground black pepper
Preheat the oven to 400°F. Drain the potatoes and pat dry with paper towels. Spread 1 tablespoon of the olive oil on each of 2 rimmed baking sheets and spread out the potatoes. Overlapping is fine.
Sprinkle the dried herbs evenly over the potatoes. Liberally spread the cheese and parsley on top. Drizzle the remaining 2 tablespoons of olive oil over the cheese. Scatter the cubed butter around the pans.
Bake until the potatoes are golden brown, rotating the pans after 30 minutes, for 45 to 50 minutes total. Use a spatula to lift off the potatoes with all the crusty cheese adhered to them. Sprinkle with salt and pepper to taste. Serve hot. ★

savory chicken pocket pies
makes 10 pocket pies
copyright Artisan Press
"One of the kids came home from school one day asking for Hot Pockets, saying he’d eaten them at a friend’s house. A supermarket freezer item, Hot Pockets come two in a box, and one boy could easily gobble up two boxes in one sitting. They are processed, laden with preservatives, and expensive, and I loathe them. Still, their utility is undeniable. So I decided to re-create a similarly attractive homemade version—something the kids could quickly heat up by themselves and snack on. The idea was to replicate the convenience, but use the best ingredients according to the boys’ specifications. I came up with a spinach version and a chicken one. For younger children, bake the pockets first, then cool and freeze (Step 5) so they can simply be heated up in the microwave. For older boys, freeze the pockets unbaked (Step 4); the boys can bake the pockets themselves, straight out of the freezer into the oven."

  • 1 3-pound chicken (to get 1 heaping cup of shredded meat; you can freeze remainder for other recipes)
  • 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • 1/2 cup chopped onion
  • 1/3 cup chopped celery (1 large stalk)
  • 1/3 cup chopped carrot (1 carrot)
  • 1/2 teaspoon coarse salt
  • 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
  • 1 1/2 cups chicken broth (from the reduced poaching liquid)
  • 1/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese
  • 1 recipe (2 disks) Cream Cheese Pastry (recipe in book)
  • 1 large egg, for egg wash
Place the chicken in a pot and add water to barely cover. Bring to a boil, reduce the heat, and simmer for 50 minutes. Skim and discard any foam as it rises to the surface. Remove the chicken to cool. Continue to boil the broth to reduce and concentrate to about 1 quart. Remove the meat from the chicken and shred.

To make the filling, melt the butter in a medium-sized hot skillet and add the onion, celery, and carrot. Sauté over medium heat for 2 to 3 minutes. Stir in the salt and flour and cook for 1 minute more. Add the chicken broth and stir until thickened, about 2 minutes. Stir in 1 heaping cup shredded chicken and the Parmesan cheese. Cool in the fridge.

Preheat the oven to 375°F. Butter or line a baking sheet.
To form the pocket pies, work with half of a disk of dough at a time, rolling it out on a floured surface. See page 65 for rolling instructions. Using an overturned bowl (about 5 inches across), cut out circles about 3 at a time from each piece of dough. After cutting out all your circles, gather all dough scraps, rer0ll, and cut out a final time. Place ¼ cup filling on one side of a dough circle. Wet the edges of the dough with water. Fold the dough over to form a half circle. Pinch the edges of the dough together. Crimp the edges with a fork. Repeat the process until all the filling is used. The pocket pies can be frozen at this point.

Place the pocket pies on the prepared baking sheet and chill for a few minutes. Prick each pie on top twice with a fork. When ready to bake, beat the egg with 1 tablespoon water. Brush the egg wash over each pocket pie. Bake for 20 to 25 minutes, until golden brown. Let rest for 5 minutes before serving. The pies can be cooled and frozen to reheat in the microwave. ★

mexican egg scramble
serves 6
copyright Artisan Press

"For anyone on the go, this is a hearty, portable breakfast—eggs wrapped in tortilla and twisted up in foil on the fly have satisfied my boys for twenty years. At home, just place the pan with the eggs and toasted corn tortillas in the center of the table. Everyone can make their own taco at the table or just use the tortillas as a fork-shovel. Alternatively, salted tortilla chips also make a crunchy contrast to the soft eggs, crumbled over the top. I love these eggs very spicy, but the chilies can be adjusted to taste. If you’re cooking for one, use two eggs and adjust the other ingredients accordingly."

  • 18 corn tortillas or 1 bag salted tortilla chips
  • 1 tablespoon vegetable oil
  • 5 scallions (both white and green parts), chopped, or ½ cup chopped onion
  • 4 to 6 serrano or jalapeño chilies, minced
  • 1 large or 2 small tomatoes, coarsely chopped
  • 1¼ teaspoons coarse salt
  • ¼ cup chopped fresh cilantro (optional)
  • 1 dozen large eggs

If using corn tortillas, toast individually over a gas flame on low or in a pan for about 40 seconds per side. Stack on top of each other and wrap in foil or a clean kitchen towel. This will steam the toasted tortillas for pliability.Heat a 14-inch skillet and then add the oil and swirl it around in the pan. Stir in the scallions and chilies. Add the tomatoes, salt, and cilantro, if using. Stir over high heat for about 2 minutes. Crack the eggs one at a time into the skillet and stir. Cook just until the eggs are set, 1 to 2 minutes. Serve immediately: scoop a portion of eggs onto each plate and offer 3 tortillas each, or crumble tortilla chips over the egg mixture. ★

“So no matter how busy you are, sauté that onion, rip up fresh basil, or slow-roast a pork shoulder. That’s all it takes to fill their sense memory and make your family feel good for a lifetime.”--Lucinda Scala Quinn

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Messy Monday: Getting and Staying Organized (with a Giveaway!)

UPDATED--Winner of the Book: #6 Rebecca. Congratulations Rebecca! Please email me your address at cheryl@momsinneedofmercy.com
Thanks everyone for entering! I heartily recommend this book.

When it comes to getting organized, there are tons of books on the market. Many present systems that work great for the authors of the books, but you are different from those authors, and their systems may not work as well for you. To get properly organized, though, you have to follow their system to a tee, even if it's an awkward fit (at least that's the impression you can get from their books).


A few years ago, I read The Complete Guide to Getting and Staying Organized by author and speaker Karen Ehman. I absolutely loved it. It is, without a doubt, the best book I have ever read--and the most helpful--when it comes to cleaning up your house and keeping it clean for good. But here's the kicker. Unlike the other organizing books that present systems you have to follow perfectly for success, Karen is heavy on mercy for moms, and you know I like that. :) She says the goal is not a spotless house every single day, but "relatively neat and clutter free" most days. I can do that....well, at least I'm trying.

For today's Messy Monday post, Karen graciously agreed to answer a few questions for all of us trying to get our acts together. She is also very generously giving away a signed copy of The Complete Guide to Getting and Staying Organized (U.S. residents only please)! Thanks Karen.

  • As moms of little ones, it is often so difficult to keep up with the house since the kids demand so much attention. What is your advice for keeping up with it all? Should we relax our standards, or work harder, or is there a middle ground? (Basically, what should we be aiming for?)

I think a woman needs to shoot for [what's] realistic. And what that looks like is different at the various stages of her mothering. If she shoots for a perfect looking home with magazine like decor and flawless cleanliness 100 % of the time, she'll never achieve it. As a result, she'll get frustrated (with both her house and her kids) and just chuck the whole thing! Instead, shoot for "reasonably clean and mostly clutter-free" That is doable.
  • If we have fallen behind and our house is a mess, where do we start as we work to get it cleaned up? How long should we anticipate it will take (especially if we have many distractions in the form of little ones who are great at making new messes!)?

Ah yes....the dilemma of the ducklings. By that I mean, once you finally get all of your ducks in a row, along comes one of your own little ducklings knocking them all down, forcing you to start all over! If a mom really has a mess on her hands, with clutter and chaos at every turn, she'll need to tackle one room at a time and not get discouraged. Start in one corner of the room, work the perimeter and deal with whatever is in front of you. Organize and weed out that dresser; deal with that pile of papers; de-junk that medicine cabinet tossing out out-dated items. Keep going. What seems like a huge task can be done with baby steps and patience.

  • If and when we fall behind, how can we find time to get caught up when simply keeping up with the daily basics and kids takes up so much of our time? What tips do you suggest?

I suggest women follow the buddy system, enlisting the help of a friend. Take turns. One day you help with her house (or watch her kids) the next week, switch!



  • Many moms struggle with finding the balance between being both a homemaker and a mother. We can find things to do in the house all day long; likewise, we can find things to do with our kids all day long and avoid spending much time on housework. What principles or tips can help us balance everything and feel good about it?

We've always taught our kids the "work before play" principle. So, if they want mom to have time to "play" then they need to chip in and help. Even three year olds can be taught to fold washcloths or sort and match socks.


  • If someone was poorly trained in housekeeping and tends toward a cluttered home, where do you suggest they begin in improving their habits? Is it possible for them to have a tidy house most of the time?

They need to see the bigger picture. Having a clutter-free home just for the sake of saying you have a clutter-free home is a dead and prideful end. It must be about something better. For me, it is about being able to find the needed papers so my kids don't miss the field trip sign-up deadline or about being able to relax and visit when someone drops over rather than to freak out because my living room is unlivable! And yes, it is possible to have a mostly tidy house. However, it just isn't going to magically appear. We will have to work and also have to do maintenance to keep it that way.



  • How long do you think it will take for them to feel like maintaining a neat home comes naturally? Or do you think it will always be a struggle that will require much discipline?

I'd give it 3-6 months to make it a habit.
  • What are some habits that you think really make a difference in getting and staying organized?

Seeing the big picture and not getting frustrated with all of the things that have to be redone. Dishes, laundry, etc....They are never going to stay done. They are just part of our on-going responsibilities as moms!!
  • Do you recommend moms with little ones (or busy schedules otherwise) split up their chores and do a little each day, or do everything during one large chunk of time each week? What do you think is most manageable?
I've done both.. Doing a little each day worked best when my kids were small and underfoot all the time. Now, I set aside a chunk Friday morning to de-junk and deep clean before everyone gets up. Oh, and I do NOT do it all. It is my goal to work myself OUT of my cleaning job, thus, my kids start learning to do their own laundry at the age of ten and I no longer help them by age twelve. So, if the basball unifrom isn't clean, it isn't my problem! It only takes one time showing up in a dirty and wrinkled uniform to teach them to wash their ball pants when they get home from the game! Also, we have three healthy kids and dirty bathrooms every week. They can clean them too, not just me or my husband! Work before play! (And I build in lots of play!)


Good advice! The giveaway will be open all week, and I will randomly draw and post a winner for next week's Messy Monday post. Just leave a comment below to be entered in the drawing.

Also, if you have any specific questions for Karen, ask them in the comments section, and she will try to answer them as she has time this week.

Monday, November 23, 2009

Recipe for Christmas Joy E-book Winner!

The winner of Marybeth Whalen's Recipe for Christmas Joy e-book is #12, coursengroup@.... (I did not count my comments in the running obviously!).
I will email your email address to Marybeth so she can send you the ebook!
Thanks everyone for sharing your thoughts on the 3-present idea. I loved hearing from you!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

A Recipe for Christmas Joy Giveaway!

*give-away winner: coursengroup@.... Thanks for participating!

A few years ago when I first started reading blogs, I found Marybeth Whalen’s (Cheaper By the Half Dozen) and checked in just about everyday. When she announced her ebook, A Recipe for Christmas Joy, I knew I needed a copy! Knowing how much I love having a book in my hand, my husband even printed it out and spiral-bound it for me. I thoroughly enjoyed (and continue to enjoy) my Recipe for Christmas Joy. From decorations to desserts, it really helped me remember to keep the focus on Christ throughout this season bustling with activity.


One of the best take-away ideas in the book was the three present rule, based on the three gifts presented to Jesus by the wise men.


Marybeth writes,
“We started this years ago, and I love it! I tell my kids, ‘If it was good enough for Jesus, it is good enough for you!’ Who can argue with that? A good rule of thumb for this is based on the three gifts that Jesus received: gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Gold is the frivolous or fun gift—the big ticket item they have their heart set on. Frankincense symbolized worship, so this is the spiritual growth gift—a Bible, a book on being a godly kid, a Christian video, or something of the sort. And finally, myrrh is the gift that symbolized death—what Jesus was sent to do. This gift is a practical gift around what the child’s bents or talents are. It could be special supplies for an artist or a microphone for a singer, etc. This could also be something practical like an item of clothing. Three items, plus gifts from family members, plus trinkets in their stockings is still far more than what many children in this world will see in their lifetime!
• Instead of more junky toys, suggest what I call ‘experience gifts’ from the grandparents. Experience gifts are great because they afford your kids an experience they will never forget-and most times the memories last much longer than the plastic toys that break or get lost.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Isn't that a great idea? The three-present rule provided a good rule of thumb for our family, and I hope you’ll be inspired to adopt (or adapt) it for your family too. As I wrote yesterday, fewer gifts means we’ll most likely cherish what we are given more than if we received multiple gifts.


The three-present rule was just one of the goldmines I found in A Recipe for Christmas Joy!


Although I grew up in the Midwest, I’m a Southern cook at heart :). Marybeth has included pages of delicious holiday and anytime recipes: Tarheel pie, pumpkin bread (that makes three loaves at once), pumpkin crisp, cornbread dressing, corn pudding, slow cooker apple butter, our favorite pork roast recipe, even how to cook a turkey in the Crock-pot! Plus there’s a whole list of easy meal ideas for busy nights.


  • There’s also a comprehensive list of great Christmas books to read to our children (I have placed a hold and checked many of these out from our library)
  • Advent ideas and crafts
  • decorating ideas and reminders that the celebration centers on Christ, not Santa. “If Jesus were to walk into your house at Christmastime, would He know that the celebration was all about Him?”
  • Homemade frugal gift ideas: no sew fleece projects, gifts in a jar, homemade mixes
  • Organizing the lead-up to Christmas (what to do week by week)
  • Ideas for hosting holiday teas
  • And much more!
Marybeth generously agreed to bless one lucky reader with a copy of A Recipe for Christmas Joy! To be entered to win, please leave a comment at this post, and I’ll draw a winner on Monday!

Visit Frugal Friday for more money-saving ideas!





Monday, November 16, 2009

It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life Give-Away Winner!

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life post! I enjoyed hearing from you!

The winner of the book is: anonymous, with the email address: thejoyofthelord.

I've sent you an email. I need to get your mailing address asap please.

We have another great give-away coming up later this week, focusing on a recipe for Christmas joy!

Monday, October 5, 2009

Fall Carnival Giveaway! Complete Diaper Changing Station in One Beautiful Roll!



UPDATE: Random.org chose #26 Heather as the winner of the Baby Roll. Heather, please email me your mailing address (mailto:cherylannhackett@yahoo.com).If you didn't win and would like to order your very own Baby Roll, you can contact Jaime at jaimeswartzendruber@yahoo.com.
 Baby rolls normally retail at $25.  However, just for you she is offering a special discount of $20 plus free shipping...AND...she is offering a 10% discount on the first five orders ($18 plus free shipping). A big thank you to Jaime for donating the Baby Roll. Congratulations, Heather! Thanks everyone for stopping by! Please come visit again!
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------


You're in a public restroom and need to change your baby. The changing table (if there is one) is dirty, and there are no disposable cloth liners in the dispenser to put on top of it. What do you do?


Enter my friend Jaime's wonderful invention: THE BABY ROLL! Hand-sewn out of beautiful fabric, it rolls up easily in your purse or diaper bag, and unrolls to reveal a super handy diaper changing pad, covered with vinyl on the inside so it's easy to wipe clean. It gets better: there's even a sewn-in pocket so you can store your diapers and wipes inside. Your own personal changing station, all in one handy roll.
(this is the actual roll for this giveaway)

As part of Heavenly Homemakers' Fall Giveaway Carnival, Jaime has generously agreed to give away one baby roll to a lucky reader within the U.S. (For those who don't win, keep in mind these make wonderful baby gifts. What a great way to support stay-at-home moms who custom-make products for extra income).



These retail at $25. Not only is Jaime giving one away, for those who don't win, she is offering a special discount of $20 plus free shipping...AND...she is offering a 10% discount on the first five orders ($18 plus free shipping). If you don't win and would like to order one (or have someone order you one for Christmas, you can contact Jaime at jaimeswartzendruber@yahoo.com)
Please leave me a comment to be entered to win. I will draw and post the winner Friday, October 9, at 6 pm Mountain Time. Thanks for stopping by! Hope to see you soon!

ShareThis